Unless you’ve watched a ton of “My Fair Wedding” with David Tutera, wedding-speak can be a little confusing. We broke down some of the most common terms you’ll hear again and again as you plan your big day.
APPLIQUE: Appliques are decorative motifs needled onto wedding dresses or veils. Commonly, they’re made of lace and include embellishments such as faux pearls.
BUSTLE: Bustling a dress refers to the process of hooking or tying fabric from the train to the back of the dress to keep it from dragging throughout the reception.
CANAPE: An hors d’oeuvre, a canape is small piece of puff pastry or cracker topped with savory food. They are typically eaten in one bite and are often tray-served during cocktail hour.
CELEBRANT: A celebrant is someone who performs a rite or ritual. During a wedding, a celebrant officiates the couple’s vows.
DAY-OF COORDINATOR: A day-of coordinator ensures the wedding day is perfectly executed. They keep everyone from the bridal to vendors on schedule.
ESCORT CARD: Less formal than place cards, which direct guests to a specific seat at the reception, escort cards direct guests to a table.
EXIT: This term is largely used by photographers and videographers. It refers to how the couple is celebrated as they leave for their getaway. Often, guests light sparklers or throw lavender at the couple, who run between rows of friends and family.
FONDANT: Fondant is an edible icing used to sculpt cakes or pastries. Unlike buttercream, it can be smoothed completely.
GOBO LIGHTING: A gobo is an object placed inside or in front of a light source. The object forces a shaped shadow onto a wall or dancefloor, typically shown at receptions. The pattern is most often the couple’s last name or monogram.
HEAD TABLE: A head table is designated for the bridal party to sit at during a formal meal or reception.
INVITATION SUITE: An invitation suite refers to a couple’s entire collection of wedding stationery. Basic invitation suites include stamps, envelopes, an invitation, and an RSVP card.
LETTERPRESS: Letterpress is a printing technique that leaves paper goods with the impression of text either raised or indented. It is typically more expensive than other printing methods but is considered a luxury product.
PROCESSION: The procession is the first part of the wedding ceremony. Immediate family members, bridal party members, and the couple walk down the aisle. The processional refers to the music played during the procession.
SIGNATURE COCKTAIL: A signature cocktail is a custom drink created specifically for the wedding, often named after the couple or themed to match the celebration.
by LINDSAY PACE